Mary Lou (Clark) Westphal

Today, we said goodbye to our mother, Mary Lou Clark-Westphal. For those of you who knew her, you understand what a profound presence she was in our lives. Living independently to ninety-two, she left the world on her own terms, and we will miss her deeply, we will never forget the role she played in shaping who we are.

Mary Lou was a child of the Great Depression, losing her father when she was just ten. She and her three sisters were raised by our grandmother, a strong, single mother long before that term became common. Our mom often spoke of how much she missed her sisters and our dad, and our deepest hope is that they are now reunited, engaged in the lively conversations she cherished so much.

Mom was the heart of our family. She stayed home to raise us, balancing love and discipline in the way only she could. She was the Little League mom who ran the snack shop, and we’d often joke that profits were at their highest when she was in charge. Her home was spotless, something our friends always noticed; a testament to her fierce dedication to keeping things in order. She and our dad worked together as a team, ensuring we had everything we needed, including a Catholic education and the unwavering presence of faith in our lives. She taught us the importance of living within our means and the value of hard work—lessons that have stayed with us all.

Later in life, she entered the workforce and began a new chapter, working for a large insurance company where she handled claims. Her love for us and her joy of being a grandmother and great grandmother was apparent. Whip-smart and always keeping pace with the times, she was open to new ideas, never letting age dull her curiosity or wisdom.

We were fortunate to have her with us long enough to truly appreciate the depth of her journey, her sacrifices, and her unconditional love. She has left us with a legacy of strength, grace, and wisdom that will continue to live on in all of us who loved her.

She is survived by her daughter Karen Westphal Hochberg and sons David and Kathy Westphal, Daniel and Maryann Westphal. Grandchildren Chase Westphal, Jordan Westphal (Lauren), Tessa Ashoff (Alex), Christen Westphal, Kayla Zimmerly (Josh), Claire Westphal and Olivia Westphal and her great-grandson Emmett Ashoff and soon to be second great grandchild due in December.

For those of you inclined to donate in her memory. Please donate to her Meals on Wheels provider Macedonia FACE at https://macedoniaface.networkforgood.com/

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